Let's Bring Him Home...
Who said you had to do this alone?
You are not crazy. You are not alone. This is not the end.
You are a Wise Wonderful Woman! What you do right now matters. ❤️❤️
Hi! I'm Laurie!
My name is Laurie McDermott.
I am the Founder of TheWifeExpert.com and the Bring Him Home Program and BHH Video Vault.
I have been a Master Marriage Coach for over 15 years, specializing in helping wives whose husbands are lost in a midlife crisis or affair.
I know this pain because I lived it. My own husband left me, and two years later I brought him home. Today our marriage is better than I ever imagined possible.
I did not do it alone. I spent years interviewing thousands of wise strangers, older men and women who shared their stories with me, the good ones and the heartbreaking ones, to carve a path for my husband to return.
And it worked!!
In 2017 I turned that path into the Bring Him Home Program and BHH Video Vault so no wife ever has to figure this out alone.
Today thousands of women all over the world have successfully brought their spouse home using the skills they learned in my BHH program.
Every day, wives tell me the same thing. The Bring Him Home videos did not just bring their husband home. They changed everything.
My students realized they are not alone. They learned how to survive the shock of betrayal, step out of the muck that keeps them stuck, and trust the process I teach completely.
I want to teach you how to do it too.
Let's Bring Him Home...
Stay Straight!
My story is like yours. Things got weird in 2012 and worse in 2013. Then he left.
Everyone told me to give up. But something deep inside me knew my husband was still in there. Not the man he had become, but the one I said yes to. I wanted that man back. And I became obsessed with finding a way to reach him.
Then something unexpected happened. For the next four years I worked as a waitress at LAX, and it became my greatest classroom. Every single shift I had intimate conversations with hundreds of strangers. Married. Divorced. Separated. Heartbroken. Healed. Anyone with a story, I asked. And I did not stop asking.
What I found was a clear pattern. Across thousands of conversations, generational evidence emerged of what worked and what destroyed families forever. I dove into the dark and scary roads. I got dirty. And over time I carved one clear path forward and made it wider, deeper and straight.
Along the way I made a promise to God. Help me bring my husband home and I will spend my life helping other women do the same.
Eighteen months later, my husband walked back through our door. Shortly after, the calls started coming. And that is when I became a Certified Master Midlife Crisis Coach and The "Bring Him Home" Program was born.
What I did was not easy. I am not a perfect person. But it worked. And continues to work for every wife who stays, learns and refuses to give up.
The man in your house right now is not your husband. He has been hijacked. But he's in there. And you know it!
Do not quit.
Join me. Learn what I know.
Connect with Laurie!
You Belong Here. You are safe. ❤️❤️
Laurie's Promise...
I teach what works.
If you trust me.
If you listen to me,
If you follow my words,
If you let go and understand,
And if that man, who once put a ring on your finger and promised you'd be together forever, is still alive and breathing and walking on this planet...
We will get him home!
This Storm Will End...
When the wind stops, when the rain fades, when the roar goes still...will you be ready? Will you be prepared?
Will you know exactly what to do or say or ask?
Your Future...
Not only will I teach you how to Bring Him Home, you’ll also be surrounded by positive, supportive wives who truly understand you and your journey. Together, you’ll build deeper relationships, gain confidence in every step you take, create greater peace and freedom in your life, and give your children a strong, loving foundation that can shape generations to come.
With that man of your by your side!
What They Say...
Dear Laurie,
My husband is home because of this program. If I never found you, where would I be?? Where would he be? Where would my kids be??
I never thought he would come home and you helped me not only see that this was possible, you helped me make it happen. Thank you for HOPE Laurie.
JL
England
You told me he would come home when my mum and others said he wouldn't. My husband turned into such an ass and today he is even more loving and engaging, almost as if he never left. 😂
If it wasn't for you I'd be divorced, depressed, fat and bitter. You helped me get a miracle! Truly. I can never repay you. I am forever your student. And YOU are going to be forever my coach! xoxox
Karen Zola
London
I wish I found you sooner. My marriage is back on track but I wasted so much precious time.
I will go to my death bed in awe that I met a real angel here on earth.
You are an angel Laurie.
You never quit on me.
My family is back together because of on thing: you.
Ken
Kansas
Why Join...?
I Care. I Believe. I Walked the Road.
I cracked the code on what actually works to bring him home and restore your family.
I believe two people can come back together at any stage.
I know that marriage, love and commitment are cornerstones worth fighting for.
I do not believe you are ever too old or too hurt to learn a new way forward.
I know that laughter, friendship and sisterhood are not luxuries right now. They are survival.
I have built a private, judgment free community of wives and yes, even husbands, who get it because they are living it.
I know that when women bond together on my BHH community or at retreats, getaways and workshops, something powerful happens that no video or podcast can replicate. The sisterhood is the heartbeat of everything I do.
Can't wait to meet you! ❤️
Stop Guessing!
Start "KNOWING." Imagine watching engaging videos that told you exactly what to do right now. What to say. What to text. How to say it. How to talk to him.
My BHH videos give you all of it, so you can grow confident, love yourself, stay sane and even smile during THE hardest season of your life.
Ready to walk with me...? ❤️
Yes!
The Bring Him Home Vault!
This chaos is not forever.
Since 2013, I've studied midlife crisis from every angle, interviewing thousands of men and women, analyzing real stories, and identifying exactly what works and what doesn't.
I know because I lived it. Everything I discovered, years of research, interviews, and real results, that brought my own husband home are packed into this priceless powerful rare exclusive resource.
The Bring Him Home Video Vault Library has 317+ videos that answer every question and calms every worry and gives you the tool you need to deal with him.
Inside You'll find:
* How to survive his midlife crisis without losing yourself.
* How to stop divorce and rebuild trust.
* Exactly what to do and say.
This isn't guess work. This is not anyone else's research.
The BHH Video program is Proven. Personal. Priceless.
And it works.
When the people in your life tell you to give up? Just smile.
You've got me now: your best secret weapon.
Yes! Forgot to add: I am a secret. Do not share me with anyone.
Unless they are facing what you are facing.
Your strongest, most loving marriage is still possible: and it starts right here. ❤️
Here are a few topics in BHH ...
What You Get?
Join The "Bring Him Home" Educational Vault and receive:
Access to Me ❤️
My personal cell phone. Set up private calls/texting.
Members only receive exclusive access.
The “BHH” videos!
Pure Gold. Tools, tips, strategiest in over 300 + engaging videos based on proven methods that work. Imagine feeling confident knowing he is coming back and that you know what to do, what to say, how to act, what to think.
BHH Mastermind classes & Group Calls
These Group Calls and Mastermind Classes are Positive & hopeful.. Open discussions on your stories. Real life situations that you can follow and comment and grow. Leave each class feeling confident, motivated and 100% certain you are doing the right thing!
Words to Say: The Midlife Crisis Playbook Scripts
Get access to researched, developed and proven words/phrases/full sentences that you can text, write or say that work.
Forever Friendships With Women Just Like You!
Positive "Bring Him Home" Private Community (IP) Iminge an area where you can talk and text to other women (and men) just like you! ONCE YOU JOIN my Bring Him Home Video Program, toggle to the Private Positive WiseWife Community (IP)with 5 different channels for you to start reading, responding, hearting and posting! I have the most positive group of MLC wives on the planet! xoxox
Workshops | Retreats | Trips
Be the first to know about open spots on any Workshop, retreat or trip!
"Burner Phone" (on demand)
If you need it, we will talk.
Is it worth it...?
The enemy came to steal, divide and destroy your husband.
Then you, your children, grandchildren and generations that follow.
Do you think you landed on this page by accident?
You have one goal. Husband home and family together.
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
And Yes. It is worth it.
Questions Answered...
WHERE CAN I WATCH THE BRING HIM HOME VIDEOS (IP)
I want you to join via my website: thewifeexpert.com and then watch the videos on a big screen computer so you do not miss a thing!
My facial expressions and the funny pictures I put up will help you remember what I am teaching you.
After you have gone through the videos - then I want you to Download The Wife Expert APP to your Phone, computer, TV or IPAD.
The faster you learn all I am teaching you the quicker you start feeling you are doing better!
I CAN'T AFFORD THIS!
What I teach no one else teaches. No one.
What is the cost to get your family together? When you think of that, my program is a steal.
While the "Price" of divorce might look expensive, the 'Cost" of Divorce lifelong Pain & Trauma is worse.
The safety, security and identity of your family foundation is over.
Do you want that?
All of My students have said that what I teach has helped them with him, with your kids, with your job. Why would you not want to learn all you can?
You have 0 to lose and EVERYTHING to gain.
You can't NOT afford to join.
HOW DO I SET UP A CALL WITH YOU?
Set up a Call here:
https://calendly.com/thewifeexpert/support-and-advice?month=2025-06
After you join you have the option to purchase Call Packs or Texting Packs or My WiseWife (IP) Intensive Call & Text Pack that gets my information in you as fast as possible.
I have only a few spots for the intensive. So if you want this option, after you join, reach out to me at
thewifeexpert@gmail.com
Subject: 911 Intensive.
WHAT IS THIS TEXTING SERVICE?
When a MLC man texts his wife and they respond haphazardly, disaster can strike. Why not learn a new skill?
I am an award winning writer. I write responses that are based on my WiseWife Scripts.
Many women are shocked when I write one text for them that they send and the husband, who has not responded in months, writes back!
Texting with me means instant hope!!!
❤️❤️ Together we will write texts to him that plant massive Silent Seeds (IP) as well as give you the support you need to keep your head on straight! And get him home Fast!
WILL LEARNING THESE VIDEOS BRING HIM HOME?
YES!!
YES!!!
YES!!!!!!
I have wives join my Bring Him Home (IP) videos, never speak to me and email me after 6 months and say, "Thank you! He's home now and it's because of your videos that I learned what to do. thank you."
Watching my videos 5-10 every single day keeps your mind in the best place!
THEN...you must practice!
WHAT IS THE WISEWIFE GROUP CALLS (IP)& HOW DO I FIND THEM?
My WiseWife Group Calls (IP) are where we meet live and will become your fun lifeline!
Just before each class I will send you a link with the time/date. Plus you can see them on the APP calendar.
WiseWife Group Calls (IP) are when you can talk to me! And where we learn how everyone is doing!
Your job: Come, ask questions, cheerlead on the chat or just listen or you can text with others.
Each class is 60 minutes till whenever everyone has a chance to talk! The goal is to help you feel and get support, help, advice, suggestions.
Each attendee is offered 5 minutes to talk with me, every single class! Raise your hand and you will get you questions solved!
We meet 2 to 4 times a month!
All WiseWife Group Calls (IP) are Positive, Hopeful and filled with insights and Support!
You will leave class feeling confident, motivated and joful!
FYI: All recordings are posted on the video membership for you to watch again!
WHAT IS MY BIGGEST CHALLENGE?
Failure is NOT an option.
What will be your biggest challenge? Do not take this the wrong way....
But it's you.
YOU are your biggest problem.
If you do listen, stay open, keep your ego and pride far far away, you will snarl and snag in your own negativity.
Here is the best news: if you just listen. Do not over think or listen to your best friend Suzie who has been married 5 times, you will have the HIGHEST CHANCE of bringing him home.
You CAN do this!! Yet you will get in your own way! You are your own leader - you are the temperature!
I have led you to massive pool of water...I've carved the space for the water, poured the water into the pool, and now I have brought you right to the edge.
All you have to do is reach in and grab it!
HOW CAN I MAKE THIS GO FASTER?
1) Listen.
2) STUDY: Watch 5-10 videos every day.
3) Mirror me.
4) Believe he will return.
5) Practice on anyone!
7) Come to WiseWife Group Calls (IP)
DO YOU EVER MAKE HOUSE CALLS?
I love house calls!! In Los Angeles, I do it often, especially for celebrities.
In-Person Home Visit:
You invite me to your home for 48 hours & transform your life fast! Ask me: thewifeexpert@gmail.com
Put in the Subject: 911 Housecall
WHERE CAN I SEE/HEAR YOU SPEAK?
I am speaking all over constantly. You want me to come speak near you? Send me your church or local community info and I will put my speaker agent on the job!
310-374-7777
DO YOU HAVE FREE VIDEOS?
Yes! Plenty!! DOWNLOAD The Wife Expert APP and then watch the welcome videos!
Or
Go to Youtube & subscribe! ALL FREE: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheWifeExpert
Or...
Go to TheWifeExpert.com and READ EVERYTHING!!!
I know what it is like to be where you are and I work tirelessly for you!
I am here!
Use me!